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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS are you for it or against???

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Friends with benefits is very tricky and usually ends up bad unless both parties understand the rules. You will need to learn to have sex without emotion involved and certain people can't do that. Whenever i think of this i have questions like..considering you're single, who benefits most from it? would he/she think less of the other? or less of the friendship because of this? At the end of the "friends with benefits" thing, will the friendship go down the drain??
In my opinion,i think both parties have to understand that "friends with benefits" is a temporary condition, both parties satisfying their sexual wants and needs, as friends, but both knowing that in a loving heartbeat, the whole thing can change..It might not end well, when it does end, which it will, you might never be friends again. One problem with friends with benefits, one person always develops feeling for the other as it continues to get comfortable which defeats the purpose of it.
I also think it depends on the chemistry two people have. Some end really bad and some end up being really good friends... with that added bonus. I think maturity and knowing boundaries has a lot to do with it going either way.
Most men will go as far as a woman let them.
From a different perspective, the term comes hand in hand, it's a physical relationship in which both parties have already identified that the individual as not being relationship material. As long as the sex is great........WHY NOT!!
i dont support  *friends with benefits* but most importantly as long as you happy, and you not hurting anyone! DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!
pls drop your comments. thanks.

8 comments:

papa said...

Is it possible 4 FWBs to not be emotional??

nikky tee said...

@Papa..well nothing is impossible!!

nkey_85 said...

For some weird reason, I highly doubt that FWB is possible without someone catching feelings, I asked all my friends, and most share the same story, it ended because they either caught feelings or the man (very rare) caught feelings.

Tosin said...

I don't the point cuz at the end of the day, someone is gonna get hurt. -.- It's either you're both together or you're just friends. I dunno but there is always a possibility of it working out. so yeahhh

Dapo said...

Nah.. shit don't work.. believe me, av tried :D.. someone will end up breaching the agreement...

nikky tee said...

@NKECHI VERY TRUE..never heard of a man catching feeling..very very rare..
so far no FWB supporter..

papa said...

I believe guys do fall....like seriously, how possible is it for there not to be feelins around such an "intimate act"??guyz jus play chicken.....as in she has to blink 1st or I can't be da wuss....I support FWBs as long as shit is out in da open......all matters r addressed as n wen dey arise.....ignorin stuff is wat causes confusion, mixed signals n a breakdown in da arrangement....but hey, dat cud jus be me :)

nikky tee said...

@papa hmm i see your point..and i believe it can go both ways..someone MIGHT get hurt..and at the same time things might just end up perfect!