FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS are you for it or against???

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Friends with benefits is very tricky and usually ends up bad unless both parties understand the rules. You will need to learn to have sex without emotion involved and certain people can't do that. Whenever i think of this i have questions like..considering you're single, who benefits most from it? would he/she think less of the other? or less of the friendship because of this? At the end of the "friends with benefits" thing, will the friendship go down the drain??
In my opinion,i think both parties have to understand that "friends with benefits" is a temporary condition, both parties satisfying their sexual wants and needs, as friends, but both knowing that in a loving heartbeat, the whole thing can change..It might not end well, when it does end, which it will, you might never be friends again. One problem with friends with benefits, one person always develops feeling for the other as it continues to get comfortable which defeats the purpose of it.
I also think it depends on the chemistry two people have. Some end really bad and some end up being really good friends... with that added bonus. I think maturity and knowing boundaries has a lot to do with it going either way.
Most men will go as far as a woman let them.
From a different perspective, the term comes hand in hand, it's a physical relationship in which both parties have already identified that the individual as not being relationship material. As long as the sex is great........WHY NOT!!
i dont support  *friends with benefits* but most importantly as long as you happy, and you not hurting anyone! DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!
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